In Spite of Our Weaknesses
Dear Darling,
I want you to know something important; it is possible to succeed, not despite your weaknesses, but sometimes even because of them.
Too often, we let our shortcomings and challenges hold us back from our goals and dreams. We compare ourselves to others, thinking, “I could never be as good as her. Why even try?” You might hear someone say, “I love to sing, but my voice isn’t as good as hers, so I’ll never make it as a musician.” Or perhaps, “I’m too old to go back to school; I should just let that dream go.”
But here’s the truth; those very weaknesses that you think are holding you back might be the source of your greatest strength—if you embrace them and work on them.
Think about it. People who were once called “talkative” have gone on to become some of the world’s greatest public speakers. What was once seen as a flaw became their superpower when they harnessed it in the right way.
Of course, some weaknesses need to be brought under control or completely eliminated from your life, if you are to experience any form of progress.. For example, a person who wastes money and time chasing and creating new amorous relationships at every turn or a thief who lives by dishonesty would end up in ruin if they don’t change their ways.
But even these traits, when redirected, can become strengths. That same charm of the amorous lover could make him or her an exceptional negotiator, closing deals with ease. And the sharp instincts of the thief could make her a brilliant detective, solving crimes with an almost supernatural ability to sense wrongdoing.
So, my Darling, before you write yourself off as “not good enough,” take a step back. Look at those parts of you that you consider weaknesses. Ask yourself: How can I turn this into my strength? Work at them every single day, and you will be surprised at what you will become.
Remember, every flower blooms at its own time, in its own unique way. And so will you!!!!
Take care, Darling.
Yours truly,